The night itself
What actually happens at the party?
Your Guide arrives about 15 minutes early to set up. Then the night runs like this, about an hour start to finish.
- 01
The arrivalon arrivalShe introduces herself and gets set up, with 25+ VUSH pieces and a few surprises in tow.
- 02
The masterclass~30 minOpens with a quick anonymous quiz on everyone's phones so your Guide can read the room, then the class itself, built around what your group nominated. Cheeky, never crude, and no experience needed.
- 03
Hands on with VUSH~20 minThen the pieces come out. Your Guide passes 25+ best-selling VUSH pieces around the room and covers what each one is and who it's for, so you can feel the difference instead of guessing from a photo.
- 04
Spicy trivia~10 minQuestions to get the group talking, across all things spicy. The winner takes home The Empress Tidal, worth $125, with 4.8 stars from 3,145 reviews.
- 05
Open your goody bagsEveryone opens theirs at the same time. Three VUSH gifts each, yours to keep, however the trivia went.
Anything you add before the night is half price and your Guide carries it in with her, so it always pays to decide early.
Is it… tasteful?
Completely. Think your funniest friend who happens to know everything about this stuff, not some cheesy party act. Always tasteful, never explicit, and our Guides read the room before anything. Cheeky, never crude.
Someone's mom (or a conservative aunt) is coming. Is this going to be weird?
Happens all the time. Tell us who's in the room in the booking notes and your Guide calibrates everything: which games, which jokes, how warm the quiz runs. Moms routinely have the most fun and quote the Guide at the rehearsal dinner.
We have shy guests. Will anyone be put on the spot?
Never. The quiz is properly anonymous (skip any question), nobody is ever asked to claim an answer, and there are shy-friendly versions of every game. The quiet friend can laugh from the corner the whole time. Plenty do.
Does anyone have to buy anything?
No one's ever pressured to. The gifts and the prizes are included, so it's a show-and-tell, not a sales pitch: no catalogs, no order forms, no hard sell, and your Guide is paid for the night either way. If a guest falls for something for herself, your Guide has a discount code for the VUSH site, only if she asks. We're not that brand. Worth knowing: anything added to the booking beforehand is half price, so the best value is always before the night, not on it.
Is the quiz really anonymous?
Really. Guests join privately on their own phones, and individual answers are never shown to the group: only the room's combined results, which guide what your Guide covers. No names on screen, nothing shared outside the room.
Is anything sexual or physical involved?
No. Girls Night is education and entertainment. Everyone stays fully clothed, nothing is ever used on anyone, and no guest is asked to participate physically. Products are passed around for show-and-tell only. If those boundaries are crossed, your Guide can end the event, and no refund applies in that case.
Are the display products clean?
Yes. The display set your Guide passes around is display-only, never used on anyone, and it is cleaned before and after every event. The products in your gift bags are a different set entirely: brand new and sealed.
Will VUSH film or photograph the party?
Not without permission. Your Guide never films, photographs or posts your group unless you have expressly said yes. Your party, your photos, your call. We just ask that guests check with the room, and the Guide, before filming.
Who is Girls Night designed for?
It is an 18+, women-only night, and it is built to be comfortable whether guests are single or partnered, queer or straight, experienced, curious or completely new to all of it. Nobody has to answer anything, share anything or join in anything she would rather skip.
How long does it run?
About an hour. Roughly thirty minutes of masterclass, twenty minutes hands on with the VUSH range, and ten minutes of spicy trivia, then everyone opens their goody bags to finish. Your Guide arrives about 15 minutes early to set up.
Can guests drink during it?
Your party, your pours. The only person who won't be drinking is the Guide. House rule.
Booking & payment
How does booking work?
You do it yourself, in a couple of minutes.
Book your night: pick your date, tell us how many girls, and pop in the address, or just the ZIP code if the venue isn't locked in yet. It is paid in full when you book, at $30 a head, so there is nothing to settle later. Every guest gets the same three gifts, and you can add anything from the range at half price, when you book or any time up to 14 days out. Your booking is confirmed on the spot and your Guide's details come before your night. Date, time, address or add-on changes are free up to 14 days out. If you'd rather talk it through first,
tell us what you're planning and we'll come back to you.
What shows up on the card statement?
A discreet descriptor, "GN EVENTS", not a product name. Packaging and follow-up emails are discreet too.
Can we split the payment between the group?
One person covers the booking (usually whoever's organizing), and how the group squares up afterwards is entirely up to you.
How much is it?
$30 a head, five guests minimum. That is the Guide, the full masterclass, the quiz, spicy trivia, and three gifts for every guest, opened together at the end. There are no packages to compare. If you want more in the room, your Event Coordinator adds it after you book at half the retail price and your Guide brings it with her. Five guests minimum, forty maximum.
How far ahead should we book?
Most groups lock it in 4–10 weeks out; Saturdays go first. Party's coming up fast? The earliest we can do is 48 hours out.
Book your night and the calendar will only offer you dates we can actually make.
What if my numbers change after I book?
That's fine, and it's free. Change your guest count up or down any time up to 14 days before your night. Your number is what sets the price, so if more people are coming you pay the difference, and if fewer are coming we refund it, down to the five-guest minimum. Just message us with your booking name and the new number.
Inside the final 14 days your kit is already packed, so we can't promise three gifts for someone added at the last minute. Extra friends are still welcome to come and join in, we just can't guarantee a goody bag for anyone who wasn't on the list, and the number you've paid for is locked at that point.
Is there a limit on group size?
Five is the minimum and forty is the maximum. The price scales with your number, so nobody pays for seats you do not use. Most groups are 8–17, which also makes the cost easy to split between the group. Every guest gets her own three gifts however many of you there are, so a bigger group means more gifts, not a thinner spread. Got 25 or more coming? Tell us in the notes so your Guide can plan the room. Over forty, the booking form will point you to us instead, because one Guide and one room stop working past that.
Are there travel fees?
Travel is free across each metro we serve. Travel is free within 45 minutes of the metro. Beyond that a flat fee applies: +$75 out to 70 minutes, +$150 out to 90. Past 90 minutes we can't send a Guide through the booking form, so message us and we'll see what we can do by hand. Your address tells us the exact fee before you pay, it is included in the total you're charged at booking, and you'll never be charged a fee you haven't seen. If we can't service your location at all, you're refunded in full.
What's the reschedule and refund policy?
Changes are free up to 14 days before your event: move it to any open date within 12 months of your booking, change your numbers, your address or what you added. Cancelling is simple too. Within 48 hours of booking you get a full refund, as long as your event isn't inside the next 7 days. More than 14 days out, everything you paid comes back minus a flat $99 cancellation fee. Inside the final 14 days, half the night fee comes back, because your Guide is booked and your kit is packed by then. Anything you added from the range and any travel fee are always refunded in full, and nothing ships: the gifts are part of the night itself. And if we ever cancel or can't deliver on our side, that's an automatic, immediate, full refund of everything you've paid. You don't have to ask.
The gifts
What's included?
Three VUSH gifts for every guest, $20 each at retail, so ten of you go home with thirty gifts between you. It's the same pack for everyone: furry handcuffs, a furry heart paddle and a black lace eye mask. Anything you add with your Event Coordinator after booking comes on top, at half price.
The guest of honor already owns VUSH. Can we customize what she gets?
The three gifts are the same for every guest, so nobody ends up with the lesser bag and there's nothing for you to organize. If she already has VUSH at home, the move is to add something from the range for her when your Event Coordinator calls: half the retail price, and your Guide brings it with her on the night.
When does she get them?
Right at the end. Everyone opens their gift bags at the same time, so it's the whole room going at once rather than one person unwrapping while everybody watches. Have a phone ready.
Guides & safety
Who exactly is the Guide?
Always a woman, and always a trained VUSH brand representative: background-checked and trained on the products, the run sheet and, most importantly, reading a room. If you love the VUSH brand, you'll love your Guide: approachable, warm, courteous, never pushy.
Can we tell the Guide about our group first?
Yes. Your prep guide collects everything she needs: who's in the room, the vibe, anything to dial up or down. She tailors the session to it, and texts when she's on her way.
What won't she do?
Always tasteful, never explicit. No singling anyone out. No hard sell, ever. No drinking on the job.
Do we tip?
Never expected. She's paid properly. If the night was incredible, a five-star review does more for her than cash.
Logistics
What venues work?
Airbnbs, vacation rentals, hotel suites, private homes, and private event spaces, anywhere private where a gathering is allowed. Not open restaurants or bars; the masterclass deserves privacy. If you've hired a private room somewhere, that counts.
When in the night should we schedule it?
Two patterns work beautifully. The pregame: 6:00 or 7:30pm, drinks in hand, before you head out. The group leaves on a high and the bars feel like an afterparty. The night in: make it the 9:00pm centerpiece of a cozy night at the Airbnb, with dinner before and the debrief after. First time planning one of these? The pregame slot is the safest bet. It gives the night structure and nobody's tired yet.
What do we need to prepare?
A living-room-ish space where everyone can sit together, and your group in the building. The prep guide covers the rest. You handle drinks and snacks; she brings everything else.
Where do you operate?
Seven cities: New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, Dallas, Miami, San Francisco and Seattle, including greater New York City (Long Island too) and greater LA plus Orange County, with more metros coming.
Book your night and we'll confirm your Guide and any travel after you book. Somewhere else?
Send us a message and we'll let you know the moment we launch near you.
Age requirements?
18+ only: every guest, no exceptions. The booker confirms this when booking.
What occasions does this work for?
Birthdays, bachelorettes, divorce parties, bridal showers, girls' trips, farewells, or a plain old girls' night in. One booking works for any of them, and every guest goes home with the same three gifts either way, so there is nothing to decide. Put the occasion in the notes and your Guide tailors the night to it.